Dear John,I am no longer attracted to my boyfriend. Don’t get me wrong he is a good looking guy, but I just don’t want to be physical with him anymore. What’s wrong with me? Is this a phase? What do I do?

Sincerely,

     -Will the spark come back?

Dear Lost Your Spark,

First off, there’s nothing “wrong” with you. You’re not the first pe Read More>

The average man speaks 2,000 words a day. The average woman speaks 20,000 words a day. Discrepancy, anyone? Fact is that women talk way more than men and they tend to wind up asking questions that men dread. But which ones do men fear the most? I asked a few guys to find out.

“I hate it when she asks ‘What are you thinking?’ She always asks me that right after we’ve done it and Read More>

Dear John,

The car I’d been driving since college recently died. Though I was sorry to see it go, I knew it was coming. And I expect my boyfriend, a gear head, would help me pick out  a new one and maybe do all the negotiating, searching, etc for me. But he did NOTHING. He didn’t even go with me to test drive them. I did a lot of research on price online but I know, statistically t Read More>

With Tiger Woods and Jesse James making the headlines lately there’s been a lot of talk about men and monogamy. Or rather the apparent lack thereof. Is infidelity inevitable? Can men be monogamous? Are women more or less likely to stay faithful than men? I decided to ask some guys to find out their thoughts.

“[Monogamy] is a sacrifice, but of course it’s possible. You jus Read More>

My boyfriend doesn’t like to do new things. He doesn’t like to travel, go to a club or even a concert. A perfect night for him - staying at home, ordering in food and watching “Whale Wars” or “Deadliest Catch”. I have visions of us going wine tasting or the Hollywood Bowl. I don’t want to be the “never gonna happen” couple. How c Read More>

Boobs. Num-nums. Knockers. Melons. Hooters. Bazongas. Baby feeders. Sweater kittens. There are probably more slang words for them than anything else in the world. And a rose by any other name would still knock our socks off. You know guys love them. But do you know what kind they love? What size? What shape? Do they care if they’re real or fake? I decided to find out. What do men really Read More>

My husband is always complaining about how much I spend on haircuts, coloring my hair, manis/pedis, makeup, etc. Yes, it costs a lot but it’s my money and it’s important to a girl. He grew up with only brothers and really doesn’t have any concept of this.  How can I get him to back off?

Signed,

- Coiffed and Colored

Dear C & C,

This is on Read More>

They say that the most beautiful women never get asked out. Why is that? Is the girl next door more desirable than the supermodel? Or is the girl next door simply more attainable? I polled several men to find out.

“The girl next door gets asked out more because she seems attainable and she doesn’t seem like a gold digger. A lot of guys see a super hot chick and think ‘she must hav Read More>

Dear John,

My man has a wandering eye and it’s driving me nuts! I mean, I know he loves me, and he’s completely devoted to me and the kids. I don’t ever think he’d cheat on me, but why is he constantly checking out other girls and how can I make him stop?

Signed,

- Eyes Wide Shut

Dear EWS,

Why is your man always checking out other girls? Because he ha Read More>