You know that moment when you run into an old love? Not just someone you used to sorta date, but THE one…emotions come quickly, making you confuse strong memories with thinking you still love them or should be with them, swiftly followed by the flood of pain and hurt.  Read more>

Last night I opened to a few random pages of the book “The Game,” a guide for pick-up artists by Neil Strauss. According to many guys I know, this is a must read.  Read more>

“I’m moving to New York!” he announced with a flourish. “I bought a one-way ticket, and I don’t know when I’m coming back.”  Read more>

I live in a tourist town. It also happens to be one of the biggest cities in the U.S.–Los Angeles. The beaches here have been written about in countless songs. So have the girls and so has love, Cali-style.  Read more>

If you had asked me a month ago whether I was in a relationship with “The One,” I would have answered, “Yes” without blinking. In fact, I would have probably smiled, secretly envisioning a stunning white gown and my girlfriends sporting garishly un-wearable hot pink bridesmaids dresses  Read more>

I have heard this from my girlfriends so many times, “If HE would only change,” everything would be just fine, and “I know I can change him,” and I’m really sick and tired of it. I’m here to tell you ladies that you cannot  Read more>

Forget speed dating. Forget online dating. That’s right… there’s something new on the dating scene and it hits Los Angeles tonight with a party at Cinefamily and a screening of The Naked Ape (appropriately) after. This time the idea has science behind it and pheromones.  Read more>

I admit it. I am a Bachelor junkie. It is my guilty pleasure. People in my life know not to call me from 8-10pm on Monday nights. To me, it’s  Read more>

It struck me that there are certain beliefs that are normative that I simply don’t hold. And others that are not, that are primary in my life.  Read more>

Has this ever happened to you? You stow your bag in the overhead bin, climb into your seat, and as you buckle your seat belt you notice that your sitting next to a total hottie?  Read more>

If we’re not currently with the love of our life, then we are either looking for him or her, or pining over the loss of him or her. But what if it’s not really the actual person that makes him or her the love of our life? What if it’s actually the emotional place we’re in?  Read more>

The First Date Interior Monologue

It takes him two weeks to get together in person. Yeah, this will never work. Ok, maybe I’ll go for a one time shot. I will chalk it up to an experience. I am still heartbroken from the last…50.  Read more>